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The Violence Before the Violence


Pain, like violence, resists neat contextualization or categorization.”

I Am Telling You What Happened To MeStatistically speaking, we know many men who commit acts of mass violence have histories of domestic assault. We know that we culturally support, protect, and embolden these men, more so when they are white. We also know that those with mental illness are more likely to be the victims than the perpetrators of violent crimes. Violence is instinctual, and in this way, ordinary. Without a fight-or-flight response, none of us would ever survive. Violence both connects us to the world around us, and protects us against it.

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